Flirting is a key factor when it comes to any relationship with men. Whether it’s your casual smile, body language, or conversational skills, most people flirt with the opposite sex as a foundation to their friendship. Flirting is extremely popular amongst human culture, especially the college culture. There are distinct ways to flirt and get what you want out of it; however, if you push the limits you will lose the interest of the guy and make him think you’re a little too much.
Smile: Remember to always smile. A smile signals that you’re friendly and pleasant. Smiles are also contagious and make that guy smile back at you. Even for a second, you’ve crossed his mind. Plus, your smile is gorgeous, so keep on flaunting it.
Laughing: Laugh at his jokes, even if they are lame. Laugh because you’re flattering him and making him feel good. Having a sense of humor is key to most relationships, and if you can laugh and joke with him, you are slowly reeling him in. Using your own sense of humor to poke fun at him in an innocent way is also a fun way for him to remain interested in you. If he pokes fun at you, let it slide off your shoulders and show him you’re a girl that is confident and that you don’t take yourself too seriously.
Body Language: Make sure your hips are pointed towards him or slightly slanted to the side because it shows that your direct attention is on him. If you are laughing with him, slightly place your hand on his arm. Make sure you’re not being standoffish. Don’t cross your arms, stand back, or be swaying. Swaying shows your bored or annoyed. Be confident when talking. Use your body to portray your self confidence. Guys love girls that are comfortable in their own skin.
Conversation: Be straightforward. You think he’s gorgeous, tell him. Never hold anything back, but play it off innocently so you don’t come on to him so strong and scare him off. Talk to him about what he’s interested in and make sure you SMILE. Be friendly and nice. Take charge of the conversation. Don’t let there be awkward pauses.
Being able to do just the following will lead to a great relationship with your next best guy friend or boyfriend. Flirting is really easy if you know how to do it and when to do it. Make sure you show confidence when you do it, and you will have him begging to hang out with you more.
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