He’s handsome, funny, and charming, and he’s all you can think about lately. I didn’t say a name, but someone popped into your head. Summer is the perfect time for romance, and close friendships sometimes blossom into something more exciting. If you want that special guy to see you as more than a friend, consider these tips.
Flirt
This is, quite simply, the key to getting him right where you want him. Smile a lot, laugh at his jokes, and make an effort to touch him more often. Physical contact helps build sexual tension.
Get him alone
If you usually hang out with him in a group setting, try to spend some time with him outside of your circle of friends. The next time you all meet up, hang back a little after everyone has left, and see if he wants to grab coffee or something.
Dress to impress
If you two are good friends, chances are you’ve gotten comfortable. In getting comfortable, you might’ve let yourself go just a little. If that’s the case, let him know you’re still capable of cleaning up by looking your best around him. Make a conscious effort to do your hair and makeup when you see him, and put on some cute clothes. He’s sure to see you in a more romantic light.
Tell him how you feel
Yes, you’re taking a big risk, but it’s the only surefire way to know if he feels the same way about you. If nothing else, you’ll still be friends. If he reciprocates, you’ll land the man of your dreams!
What do you think?
How do you get a guy to fall for you? Leave us a comment in the comments section below!
this is a great article. its kind of irrelevant to my life because I don’t really need a man to be happy, I’m perfectly ok with my girlfriends.
dont tell him you like him….. if anything that can ruin a great friendship
eeek! So I dropped several hints and my guy pieced it together! :D I didn’t get turned down. It’s official! <3
@Litany I definitely agree with you! I find just letting him initiate is best. But I have never had luck with guys :( I have been turned down by every guy I ever liked. :(
I’ve NEVER had success telling a guy friend that I liked him. I just tried doing that and now we aren’t even talking. I don’t know if its the best idea. Usually it’s better to let the guy think that the “more than friends” thing is his idea.