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Read on for the “single life” perspective from a fellow college girl.

Is it me or is that everywhere I go there are those cutesy couple gazing into each other’s eyes?

It’s like they’re mocking me, saying that they found love and I haven’t. We’re just so set on finding the right person that we read too much into simple things. It’s about time we took a stand and lived our life for ourselves and not a life filled with hope that Prince Charming is going to come tommorrow.

The perfect guy will come when he wants to.

Yes we wait for him, but while waiting, we miss the other things in life.

Looking at guys while working out, we miss that we just burned 500 calories, a new all time record. While looking at guys in restaurants, we miss how delicious our food tastes. Ok, I’m sure you guys know where I’m going on with this. But my main point here ladies is that he will come when he comes.

Enjoy life and enjoy being single!

Show off what you got and do what makes you happy!

Don’t be boy crazy all the time and just becasue he looks at you does not mean he likes you. Give it time and eventually, he will come when you least expect it. Just hope your hair looks good!


What do you think?

What are your thoughts on being single? Or, if you’re in a relationship, how did you know you found the right guy? Share your story in the comments section below.

Author: wolves5


  1. Erianna says:

    I would just like to say that I’ve read a couple of your other articles, and they have almost all been resonant with me and what I’m going through. Uncertainty in school, a time of mini depression after getting a disappointing grade, and now this one. Thank you so much for making me feel less alone in all of this!

  2. princy says:

    i was into a relationship for about one and a half year in which i tried to win him over by any trick possible but trust me the only thing i really missed was my singularity. i used to dream more about my life as a single rather than my life with him. this one and a half year was the only time when i realized how beautiful and lovely my life was when i had no one to answer and no one to be on time for. most important being that i had time for me

  3. beingpretty says:

    I have this same story!! :O
    I am almost 20, in college and most of my friends are committed and happy..they enjoy with their bf’s and here I am..sitting at home most of the time..

    But I try to get over that ‘I am so lonely’ feeling by doing things which make me happy.. But still sometimes I feel like I want someone to talk to, share my happy and sad moments with..

    But yeah I try not to think about it much..and enjoy as much as possible with my girl friends (whenever I get a chance..) :)

    Really nice post..its clear I related with it so well..! ;)

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